There it stands, a snapshot frozen in time—me, sitting besides my packed luggage, capturing the essence of a life-altering decision. The moment is filled with a whirlwind of emotions—excitement, uncertainty, and a deep sense of nostalgia.
People often ask about my decision to return to India from the USA. This post aims to shed light on my thought process behind this choice..
Making the decision to go back to India was a soul-searching and difficult decision. It was filled with excitement and uncertainty. I found myself torn between two incredible countries—the United States and India. Each held its allure and unique possibilities, discussed in the post – USA and India and risks – The Perfect Timing and Risks to Consider While Moving Back to India, but deep inside, India tugged at my heartstrings.
The vibrant pulse of India’s economy and the spirit of entrepreneurship captured my imagination. Seeing over 12,000 new startups flourishing in 2023 fueled my desire to be part of this dynamic business ecosystem. I yearned to explore my own ventures, make a lasting impact, and be a part of India’s growth story. While the USA’s economy was thriving too, the pull of home was too strong to ignore.
In the USA, the promise of high earning potential and abundant job opportunities were appealing. However, I realized that personal fulfillment and a sense of belonging were what truly mattered to me. India’s family-oriented culture created a tapestry of identity and community that deeply resonated within my heart. The warmth of celebrating life’s moments together, on the day itself and not just on weekends, makes me feel cherished and connected.
But what about the freedom and independence that the USA offers, you might ask?
While the US encouraged individuality, I craved the warmth of a strong family support system. My close-knit family provides me with love, care, and unwavering support through life’s ups and downs. Being part of an extended family brings a sense of togetherness and shared experiences. The idea of growing together as a family, rather than solely focusing on individual growth, held immense value for me. Additionally, the significance of our family business, which my father, mother, and brother poured their hearts and souls into, played a pivotal role in my decision.
When it came to healthcare, both countries offered advanced services, and the USA is renowned for its medical advancements. However, I must admit, I did have concerns about the accessibility of quality healthcare in India for those who couldn’t afford it. I feel fortunate to have doctors among our family and friends who provide valuable guidance and support, easing some of the uncertainties about healthcare. On the other hand, in the USA, navigating the healthcare processes as a first-generation immigrant felt daunting at times. The unfamiliarity with the system and the potential high costs were legitimate worries.
Education was also a crucial consideration for me, and both India and the USA boasted reputable institutions. As per my experience, in India, the education system often emphasized rankings and academics, and at times, it felt like there was an excessive focus on memorization. On the other hand, the USA exposed me to a more practical and holistic approach to education, which I found enriching. Though India’s education system might pose some challenges for the next generation, I firmly believe that they have the option to explore educational opportunities abroad if the need arises. It’s wonderful to see that efforts are being made to improve the education system in India, and I’m optimistic about the positive changes that lie ahead.
Did retirement planning come into play?
Yes! Another thing that had a big impact on my decision was how life would be every day, especially when raising kids and planning for when I’m older. In India, having people to help with household tasks made things easier, leaving more time for family and personal goals. The strong family support in India means everyone helps with raising kids, and grandparents and extended family give valuable advice and care. I also really like how close kids are to their parents in the USA because parents spend a lot of time with them. I’ll try to follow that in India too.
Indeed, India presented its share of challenges—infrastructure limitations, bureaucratic hurdles, and environmental concerns. But these were opportunities to drive change and contribute to a brighter future.
The USA, too, faced challenges—high living costs, healthcare expenditures, and job insecurities. Deep-rooted societal issues like racism, discrimination, and gun laws left me questioning my sense of belonging as a first-generation immigrant.
In the end, my heart whispered India’s name, and I knew it was where I truly belonged. The decision wasn’t solely about the advantages a country offers; it was about finding a place where my soul felt at home, where I could thrive, make a difference, and lead a fulfilling life. India embodied that place for me, and I wholeheartedly embraced this decision with joy and gratitude.
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